I’m asked this question all the time: “Why am I attracted to people who are wrong for me?” And the answer is quite simple, actually:
Because your wounded self is doing the attracting.

feeling gone.

beware of picturing yourself in a relationship as the unselfish, giving one who sacrifices everything for the other. This is a blatant ego game in which the ultimate purpose may be to gain control over the other by manipulating feelings of obligation